How To Seduce In 20 Minutes Or Less – True Story

Written by Mark D. Burg 

It was 3am in the night, and I was in my flat about to go to bed when my flatmate arrives with two girls he pulled from a nightclub.
 
Both were dressed up, in a party vibe, and a bit tipsy.
 
My flatmate introduces me, and I said: “Hey, I’m Mark. Nice to meet you.” – in a friendly neutral tone while I was giving them a cheek kiss on both sides.
 
Then my flatmate turns to his girl: “Let me show you around.” – immediately taking her to his room.
 
I’m left alone with the other girl in the living room. She's a 7 (out of 10) on a hot babe scale. So pretty hot.
 
 
Building comfort.

We were sitting at a table in front of each other. I know she’s in a completely new place, so I start a casual conversation to build comfort and calm her down a bit: 

“So, where are you from?” – in a neutral tone and a small welcoming smile. 

“I’m from Germany.” – she is responding well, with a smile and open body language.

 “Cool, me too. Which city?” – making sure that I look good while I say it, with my body in a position that shows my broad shoulders and muscles. As I’m German myself, I switch to the German language at this point to build further comfort. 

“Hamburg.” – she responds.

“Oh cool, I was there in June. The city was full of people because of the Pride Parade” – creating commonality and telling a story about a place where she is from. 

“Yeah, it’s always in summer. It’s a great time to visit Hamburg.” – the bond is successful, and comfort is established. 

Creating sexual tension. 

“So what are you doing in London?” – bringing it back to the present. 

“I’m an au pair.” – sitting in her chair, being warm and open to me. Time to spike… 

“So you do hate children, right?” – giving her a little neg with a smile. 

“No, why?” – smiling and intrigued. 

“Because most au pairs I know hate children. Even if they loved them initially, they hate them after a while. They usually come for the fun of London, not for the children.” – emotional spike, polarising the situation, using a controversial statement to challenge her and make the conversation more interesting. 

“No, I actually love children.” – her verbal response doesn’t really matter since I’m ready for anything she may come back with. 

But her non-verbal response is great as she enjoys the challenge and is not outraged by it. The emotional spike was successful. That tells me that I can start crossing other lines. 

“So, I guess you’re a good girl, then?” – I now move the conversation to sexual territories to gauge the response and start the emotional rollercoaster. 

“I don’t know, maybe” – answering with a bit of shyness but also smiling with excitement, because she’s starting to realize where this is going. 

The physical compliance test. 

“Oh, you know, I like your earrings.” – reaching with my hand to touch her ear and coming closer. Physical compliance test to check if she has any problems with me touching her. She responds well and has no issue with me touching her. This also confirms that she is physically attracted to me. After that, I step back and ask:
 
“How do you know your friend?” – I de-escalate briefly. It's all about push and pull. I'm creating a bit more comfort but also setting up the next sexual spike. 

At this point, I notice that she is not at all concerned about what her friend is doing with my flatmate in his room – this is a good sign because we all know that he is not showing her his stamp collection. 

“Oh yeah, she’s my best friend from Germany. We moved here together, we’re both au pairs.” 

“Oh, so you can easily blackmail each other?” - I'm setting up my blackmail routine which will help me to determine if she is ready for a fast seduction or not. 

“What?” – intrigued and excited. Girls like this secret society, gossip stuff. 

“Because by knowing each other for a long time, you also know all her dirty secrets and she knows yours. You have to stay friends; otherwise, all the secrets get out…” 

“Haha! You might be right…” – with a smile on her face. In her response, she admits that she might have done things before that better stay secret. That means that she was likely naughty in her past and knows what might happen at a stranger's house after a night out. That gives me further confidence to step up the pace. 

Seduction. 

“Ok, but you have to be nice to me though, ’cause I’m still a virgin waiting for the right girl.” 

I say that with a smirk, coming closer to her face, looking directly into her eyes, with our noses almost touching each other. Because she didn’t pull back and stayed in the same place, I kiss her. As I do, my left hand is touching her waist, pulling her closer. My right hand goes up to the back of her head, running my fingers under her hair. The kiss lasts for thirty seconds.
 
Since the signs I received from her up to this point were all green, with no resistance or any pushbacks whatsoever, I pull away from her face, smile, grab her hand, and say: 

“Come with me.” – with calm confidence. I know she is likely down for more. 

“Where are we going?” – normal, automatic response. 

“Don’t worry. It’s a cool place” – staying calm and leading the way. 

FYI – my room was very messy that day. So I take her to the bathroom, close the door, lock it, and push her to the wall. 

My right hand pushes her body to the wall and grabs her neck firmly, and my left hand goes under her skirt to squeeze her ass. We make out for about 30 seconds, and my left hand goes further back between her butt cheeks to lightly touch her vjj. She moans, so I bring my left hand up to her head again, grabbing her hair and pulling it.
 
My right hand goes down. I put my index finger inside the left side of her panties, slide it down to her vjj, pulling her panties slightly to the side, and tease her by running my finger up and down her vjj, feeling how wet she is but not giving her the satisfaction of putting it inside her – that’s what my anaconda is for. I do that for about 30 seconds, and then bring my hands back to her face, move her away from the wall while putting my back against it, and say:
 
“Go down.” – lightly putting pressure down on her shoulders and opening my pants. She blows me for about 2 minutes, I grab her arm with my hand to lift her up, turn her around to the lavatory, bend her over, take her pants down, put a condom on, and bang her from behind.
 
Altogether, it took about 20 minutes from "Hey, I'm Mark" to "Oh, Maaaaaark." 

You can learn this like any other skill. The little story above might appear effortless, and it was, but it took me many years of development to get to this point.

It takes skill to create a lifestyle where an opportunity like this presents itself. It takes even more skill to take advantage of these kinds of opportunities quickly.